Relationships.

Theres always that one Disney film you refer your fairy tail relationship to, just say to yourself what that said Disney film might be and keep that in your mind when you read through this...

So in a perfect world we would have a 'perfect' relationship. 

This is bullish**t!!

In reality they are bloody hard work most of the time, you both have to give and take.

My best advice from my own personal experience is be yourself. If they don't love you for whom you are on the inside they sure as sh*t don't deserve you.

If you find yourself in a controlling relationship and you don't think theres a way out, there is!

The one most important person in this situation is you (and the kids if you have any) there is no such life or 'fairy tail' about this relationship.

You feel trapped, you start to not love yourself, you look in the mirror and tell yourself well nobody is going to love me so i might as well stay. This is not the truth, love yourself.

Find yourself under this shell of a body, because once upon a time you were this fun bubbly person everyone wanted to know, take out for dinner, treat them like the princess/prince they should be. 

Yes it is hard to leave, trust me I've been there myself. When that so called 'loved one' you once thought was truly incredible whittles you down to the point you are nothing, that person does NOT deserve anymore of your life. 

The only thing they think they have is control over you, this is not the case YOU are in control of your own life, nobody else. You decide whats happening in your world, you decide where you want to be, you are the one person whom can tell what to do when and where.

It's all easier said than done i understand that, however you think back to your favourite/most related Disney film, and look around you and the 'lover' your with and ask yourself is this really my own idea of a fairytale?!

Thank you for reading,

Take care of yourself as your the main person in your life!!

One girl, One world.

xx